Niina's Definition of love Part 1

• Love doesn’t hurt the person it claims to love.

• Love multiplies the light within you, it doesn’t drain you or diminish your life.

• Love is not just sex. It is not just having children. 

It is not even just marriage. 

Those are expressions of life, but they are not the definition of love.

Love is choosing to consider the happiness, growth, and well-being of another person, just as much as your own.

We’ve all heard the saying: “If you love someone, let them go. If they come back, they were meant to be yours.”

But let me add this: when God reconnects two people, don’t just look at the history, look at the growth. Time apart does not always mean transformation.

One person may have evolved, healed, and elevated, while the other remains in the same patterns and when that happens, the gap becomes clear.

This is why self-improvement should not be optional, it should be foundational, taught from the earliest stages of life. 

Too many people grow up dependent on others for identity, validation, and direction, and that dependency often becomes a doorway for control and abuse of authority. Some even believe that money places them above others. 

True elevation is not found in status, it is found in humility. Humility is the pathway to true glory.

March has been a month of sacrifice for me, but also a month of divine encounters. God showed up, as He always does, and taught me lessons that go beyond understanding, they require courage to live out.

God’s wisdom is not always accepted in this world. Truth rarely is. But truth is like a mustard seed, small, often unnoticed, yet powerful when planted in the right soil.

Our role is not to control people or dictate their choices. Our role is to sow the seed and to trust that in time, God will water the seed, and revelation will come.

This month, I’ve also discovered something deeper: the heart sees. Not just feels but truly sees.

Following what the heart reveals can be frightening, because it demands honesty. It calls you to lay down your defenses, to stop hiding, and to face truth without filters.

Tomorrow is April, a new beginning. Not April Fools. So please, no games or “just kidding” messages. The only person fooled in that is the one playing the game.

Step into this new month with intention, truth, humility, and courage.

Have a beautiful night… and I’ll see you in the new year on April 1st... 

Toodoloo ✨